How I went from leaving myself last to putting myself first

I use to doubt every move I made for myself. I believed in the prince charming saving me and creating the best life for me. I too was brought up with self-beliefs that my life depended on finding the right partner, that my happiness depended on others but myself. One day I woke up and saw how much I sacrificed for my family by being in a job I hated but did it for money. I realized how much I gave off me without ever thinking and caring for myself. I became resentful, angry, sad, bitter and stressed because I never tried to care for myself the same way I cared for others. So I left the job I always disliked, I couldn't stand it anymore. So I set goals for myself, I learned to take discipline for my life, made some boundaries for others, made a plan for my life and little by little I started my own business. I made the decision  to find myself again. I was able to stare at my fears right in the face and went back to school, made time to understand the person I had become with much love and understanding, I dedicated and invested in what I wanted for myself. For the first time in my life I knew my purpose and what I was meant to do.

I was close to a divorce, my personal growth meant changes. My husband was confused, who was this new woman, he didn't know me anymore. But he managed to get to know the new me, he embraced the best version of myself. We managed to work things through because I knew what I wanted for myself and was not going to settle for anything less. I gain back my sexy confidence, I trusted myself, loved me for me and developed my empowerment with my new mindset for life.

I've been there so believe me,

if I can do it, YOU CAN too!

I finally understood that all along my joy, happiness and overall success depended on myself, that I had to truly believe in me with my bullshit and all, with taking responsibility of my own faults, and shifting my mindset into full positivity. If I don't love me for me than no-one else has the responsibility or obligation too, but I do I owed it myself to live my best life in this lifetime. As I become this happy, confident, radiant woman everything else just felt into place for me. I started attracting like minded people into my life and opportunities showed up for me. I understood that my self- beliefs were never mine to beginning with, so I gave them back and began my new beliefs system for myself and my new life.

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